"Arsonist's Lullabye" by Hozier
so if a bisexual dates someone of another gender, they’re really straight and looking for attention
and if a bisexual dates someone of the same gender, they’re really gay and calling themself bi out of internalized homophobia
and if a bisexual is polyamorous, they’re the reason bisexuals “can’t be trusted”
and single bisexuals are predatory liars
what the fuck are we supposed to do
Don’t ever ever EVER tell a person who identifies as disabled that they are not disabled. Especially if you are not disabled.
This has happened to me so many times.
I don’t care if you can’t see my disability.
Yes, I reference it casually in conversation because it’s a big part of my life and I’m learning to accept that.
YOU do not get to decide that because I can walk sometimes, I am not “disabled enough”.
Fuck that. Fuck you.
it’s not bad or selfish or wrong to desire attention and love when you are feeling ill and upset. sometimes, you need other people to keep you afloat. that’s okay. you are not a burden. being needy is not a bad thing. you deserve to be cared for. it’s okay to ask for help.